I have tried to upgrade macOS Mojave to Big Sur three successive times last night and each attempt took one hour because it was a full download.
The first time ended with an error code that some application was missing. Never mind that, I tried again.
This time it downloaded everything again for another hour and at the end the installer asked me if I wanted to install.
I click a “go ahead” button (by some other name).
And it started to download again the 12.44 GB for another hour!
I tried again, and once the third full download ended, magically, the installer asked me if I wanted to proceed to install, I clicked affirmatively, It asked me to accept the EULA, I did, etc. and then started to install and took some 50 minutes doing that.
Once back in business, I started by testing the things I most needed to use, my compilers. Sadly, they would not work.
So I thought, maybe if I used “Homebrew” to install them again I may get their Big Sur compatible versions, if there are such things?
But it turned out that also did not work. Looking around in the web, I decided to install missing tools with “xcode”, but first I had to install some other missing, or in Big Sur obsolete, versions of command tools. I did that, then tried again to use xcode and then to upgrade Homebrew.
It worked, only it took over an hour to get all that done, but first I had to create several directories that were missing for the Homebrew upgrade’s install to work.
That took another half hour, between figuring out what to do and doing it.
Then I tried running the two compilers to compile some source files, as a test. One worked right away.
The other needed to have a script modified using something I found, again, looking around in the Web.
Then, with the compilers working, I started testing various applications I use frequently and consequently need them to work.
No problems with those. So far.
So: not exactly “I started the download, then installed Big Sur, logged in and everything worked.”
Ex-Windows user (Win. 98, XP, 7); since mid-2017 using also macOS. Presently on Monterey 12.15 & sometimes running also Linux (Mint).
MacBook Pro circa mid-2015, 15" display, with 16GB 1600 GHz DDR3 RAM, 1 TB SSD, a Haswell architecture Intel CPU with 4 Cores and 8 Threads model i7-4870HQ @ 2.50GHz.
Intel Iris Pro GPU with Built-in Bus, VRAM 1.5 GB, Display 2880 x 1800 Retina, 24-Bit color.
macOS Monterey; browsers: Waterfox "Current", Vivaldi and (now and then) Chrome; security apps. Intego AV